So you have been invited to a wedding (yay!), and now you are wondering what the next steps are. Being invited to a wedding is so exciting, even though it can still be quite a while away upon receiving the invite. The first thought for us is usually "oh what will I wear?" but there is a few others things to consider before getting to that part.
One of the first things to consider is when to RSVP, then it is important to take note of the dress code or colour palette, and then what gift to take. After than it is al about the wedding day; who to talk to, if you should take iPhone photos and whether you not you should bring a plus one.
RSVP ASAP
You've already saved the date and blocked out your calendar, and now you have received the formal invitation. It has all the information you need regarding time, locations, plus ones (or not) and of course, when to RSVP by. The RSVP date isn't a suggestion, nor is it a prompt for you to do it on that exact day. It is essentially a deadline, and if you haven't RSVP'd by that deadline then you may very well be off the list. It is important to remember to RSVP at your earliest convenience, as the couple will need to finalise their guest list so they can organise their wedding. Once you receive the invite, check your calendar and decide if you can attend. Don’t let the invite hang on your fridge for weeks, let them know ASAP - they will appreciate your promptness.
P.S. Make sure you also specify your dietary requirements and the name of your plus one, if offered, when you do RSVP.
From left to right / By Ten Story Stationary / By Isla Simpson / By Noun New York
Follow The Dress Code & Colour Palette
Once you have RSVP'd the fun really begins (in our opinion!), as it is time to pick out what to wear. With this comes the wedding dress code and/or colour palette. The dress code will most likely be on the wedding invitation or the wedding website (if there is one). It is important to adhere to any dress code that is provided to you by the couple. If the dress code is black tie opt for a formal floor length gown, if it is casual then try a cocktail dress with some slinky heels. For garden weddings, a printed or brightly coloured dress is usually an appropriate and playful choice. If there is a colour palette or scheme then be sure to choose a style which matches with it. More and more couples are opting for unique and fun colour palettes or mix and match dress codes for their wedding (ever heard or a garden black tie?), and it is good to get in on this fun, especially if this is the couple's request of their guests. One must remember the golden rule of all weddings - don't wear white (unless asked, of course).
P.S. If there is not dress code noted at all, then you can always take cues from the season, the venue and even the invitation. Worst case scenario, you can always enquire with the bride or groom.
AS SEEN ON / Georgina in our Mira Black Gown at a all black dress code wedding
Bring A Thoughtful Gift
If the couple has a wedding gift registry, take some time to look through it and buy from it. If they don’t, opt for something that will match their interests, taste and style. Avoid purchasing something big or bulky as putting it somewhere during the ceremony and reception will cause added stress. If they have opted for a gift by donation, be generous where you can. Be sensible and buy within your means, and consider your relationship with the couple and the rough cost per head of the wedding when choosing your budget.
P.S. What do you think about giving a wedding gift for a destination wedding?
Arrive Well Before The Ceremony
As the wedding guest, your most important job is to be at the wedding on time. Research the venue location prior to the date and organise your travel arrangements with this in mind. You might even want to leave a little earlier to allow for any traffic or parking. If the couple has arranged group transport, arrive at the designated pick up location at the scheduled time. Arriving ahead of the ceremony time will allow for a stress free day ahead.
P.S. Triple checking the time of the ceremony on the invitation beforehand is always a good idea.
Avoid Taking Photos
If the couple has opted for an “unplugged” ceremony, respect their wishes by not using your phone during the ceremony. Ceremony shots by the professional photographer can be ruined by guests taking photos in the background. Nobody wants a whole bunch of iPhones ruining the best wedding photos, unless its an advertisement for Apple, of course. Unless the couple has explicitly said it is okay to take photos with your phone, it’s best to keep it in your clutch or pocket on silent. This way you can fully immerse yourself in the special moment and be present with the guests around you.
P.S. We are sure the couple will share all the best photos will their guests once they receive them back from their wedding photographer, so no need to fret!
Congratulate The Family
Take time out of the party to find the couple and their close family and thank them for the occasion. Planning a wedding is a stressful task, so showing your appreciation and gratitude is a beautiful way to keep their mood elated.
P.S. It is always fun to mention to them how much fun you had or how much you enjoyed that they had a champagne tower/a trending DJ/the best taste in food/etcetera.
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Updated on 19/07/2024
